Have you ever looked at someone’s LinkedIn profile and thought, “I wish I could understand how they built such a successful career”?
Perhaps you are a college student trying to figure out which career to choose. Maybe you are a working professional thinking about switching industries. Or perhaps you have been applying for jobs but still feel confused about which direction to take.
You want guidance from someone who has already walked the path you are considering. But there is one problem: How do you approach that person without sounding desperate, asking for a job, or making the conversation awkward?
This is where an informational interview can make a real difference.
Unlike a traditional job interview, an informational interview is a conversation where you speak with someone experienced in a particular profession, industry, or role to understand their career journey, daily responsibilities, challenges, and advice.
You are not asking them to hire you. You are asking them to share their experience.
And sometimes, one meaningful 20-minute conversation can give you more career clarity than spending weeks watching random career videos.
In this guide, we’ll explore what an informational interview is, how to approach professionals, the 5 most important informational interview questions, and ready-to-use scripts you can use on LinkedIn, WhatsApp, email, or even during an in-person conversation.
Let’s get started.
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An informational interview is an informal, career-focused conversation with someone who has experience in a profession, industry, company, or role you want to understand better.
For example:
The purpose is simple: Learn from someone’s real-world experience before making an important career decision.
During an informational interview, you can discover:
One important distinction: An informational interview is not a disguised job interview.
You should approach it with curiosity, respect, and a genuine interest in learning.
Many people confuse these two conversations. Although both involve discussing careers and professional experience, their purposes are very different.
| Informational Interview | Traditional Job Interview |
|---|---|
| You initiate the conversation to learn. | An employer evaluates you for a position. |
| You ask questions about the profession. | The interviewer asks about your qualifications. |
| The focus is career exploration. | The focus is recruitment. |
| Usually informal and conversational. | Usually structured and evaluative. |
| You learn from the other person’s experience. | You demonstrate your suitability for a role. |
| No job offer is expected. | A job offer may follow the process. |
Remember: The objective of an informational interview is not to convince someone to give you a job. It is to understand whether a particular career is worth pursuing.

In my experience guiding students, parents, and working professionals, one common problem is that people often make career decisions based on incomplete information.
A student hears that data science offers excellent salaries and immediately wants to become a data scientist.
Another student chooses engineering because their friends are doing it.
A working professional moves into management because they believe it offers better growth, without understanding what the role actually involves.
The problem?
People sometimes choose careers based on how they look from the outside rather than understanding what they involve on the inside.
Informational interviews help bridge this gap.
A job description may tell you about responsibilities, qualifications, and required skills.
But it rarely explains what a typical working day feels like.
For example, a marketing manager might spend more time analysing data, coordinating teams, and managing budgets than creating advertisements.
Speaking with someone already working in the field helps you understand the reality behind the designation.
You may believe that a particular qualification is essential for a profession.
However, an experienced professional might explain that practical experience, communication, analytical thinking, or problem-solving are equally important.
This helps you identify what you should learn before entering that field.
Many students and professionals know only a handful of career options.
An informational interview can introduce you to related roles you may never have considered.
For example, someone interested in psychology may explore:
One conversation can open up several possibilities.
People generally appreciate genuine curiosity about their work and experience.
When you approach professionals respectfully, listen carefully, and follow up with gratitude, you begin building professional relationships.
These connections may help you learn about industry developments, recommended learning resources, or future opportunities.
However, remember that networking is about building relationships, not collecting contacts.
Perhaps the biggest advantage is avoiding decisions based purely on assumptions.
Before investing time and money in a course, certification, or career change, you can speak with someone who understands the profession.
That conversation may confirm your interest—or help you realise that another direction suits you better.
Both outcomes are valuable.

Now let’s get to the most important part.
You don’t need to prepare 25 questions or conduct a formal interview.
In fact, asking too many questions can make the conversation feel like an interrogation.
Instead, focus on five thoughtful questions that encourage the other person to share meaningful insights.
Why should you ask this?
This is one of the best opening questions because it allows the other person to talk about their professional journey.
Instead of immediately asking about salaries, qualifications, or job opportunities, you invite them to share their story.
You may discover:
Example conversation:
You: “I’ve been exploring opportunities in digital marketing, and I noticed you’ve built a strong career in this field. I’d love to understand how you got started. Was digital marketing always your plan, or did you discover it along the way?”
This question makes the conversation natural and encourages storytelling.
What you should listen for:
Pay attention to the decisions, turning points, and experiences that influenced their career.
You may discover that their journey was completely different from what you imagined.
Why should you ask this?
A career may sound exciting from the outside, but the daily responsibilities may be very different from your expectations.
For example, someone interested in becoming a business analyst may imagine spending most of their time solving business problems.
However, the actual role may also involve documentation, meetings, stakeholder communication, and reporting.
This question helps you understand the reality of the profession.
Example conversation:
“One thing I’m trying to understand is what the actual work looks like beyond the job description. Could you walk me through a typical working day? What activities take up most of your time?”
What you should listen for:
Then ask yourself:
Would I genuinely enjoy doing these activities every day?
That question is important because choosing a career isn’t just about getting a designation. It’s about choosing the kind of work you want to engage in regularly.
Why should you ask this?
This question helps you understand the difference between having a qualification and being capable of performing the job effectively.
For example, two candidates may have the same degree, but one may have stronger communication, analytical thinking, adaptability, or practical problem-solving abilities.
Ask the professional what genuinely matters in their industry.
Example conversation:
“If someone is planning to enter this industry today, what are the top three skills you would recommend developing? Are there any skills that freshers commonly overlook?”
You can also ask:
“Are there any tools, certifications, or practical projects that would help someone become job-ready?”
What you should listen for:
Look for recurring skills and competencies.
Separate them into two categories:
Technical skills:
Behavioural skills:
This will give you a practical learning roadmap.
Why should you ask this?
Most people discuss the attractive side of a career.
They talk about salary packages, promotions, job titles, and growth opportunities.
But how many people ask about the difficult side?
Every profession has challenges.
Sales professionals face rejection and targets.
HR professionals deal with sensitive employee situations.
Doctors work under significant responsibility and pressure.
Entrepreneurs manage uncertainty and financial risk.
Understanding these realities helps you make a more informed decision.
Example conversation:
“Every profession has its own challenges. From your experience, what do people usually find most difficult about working in this field? And what helps successful professionals handle those challenges?”
What you should listen for:
Don’t automatically reject a career because it has challenges.
Instead, consider whether those challenges are something you are willing and prepared to handle.
Why should you ask this?
This is perhaps the most powerful question of the entire conversation.
It encourages the professional to reflect on their experience and share advice they wish they had received earlier.
You may receive practical suggestions about:
Example conversation:
“Considering how the industry has changed, if you were starting from scratch today, what would your first three steps be? Is there anything you would avoid or do differently?”
This question often produces insights you won’t find in a generic career article.
Pro tip: Don’t rush to the next question. Sometimes the most valuable information comes from the follow-up questions that emerge naturally from the professional’s answer.

Knowing what to ask is important.
But for many students and working professionals, the biggest challenge is actually approaching someone.
You might think:
Here are some practical scripts you can customise.
Keep your first message short. Don’t send your entire career story in the connection request.
Example:
“Hi [Name], I came across your profile while exploring opportunities in [Industry/Profession]. Your experience in this field caught my attention. I’d love to connect and learn from your professional journey.”
Once the person accepts your request, send a polite follow-up.
Example:
“Hi [Name],
Thank you for connecting!
I’m currently exploring a career in [Industry/Profession] and noticed your experience in this area.
I’m not reaching out for a job opportunity. I’d simply appreciate the chance to learn about your career journey, the skills required in this field, and your advice for someone planning to enter it.
Would you be comfortable sparing 15–20 minutes for a brief informational conversation sometime this week or next?
I’d genuinely appreciate your guidance.
Thank you!”
If you already have a professional or personal connection, you can make the approach slightly warmer.
Example:
“Hi [Name], hope you’re doing well!
I’m currently exploring [Industry/Profession] and thought of reaching out to you because of your experience in this field.
I’d love to understand a little more about the industry, the skills required, and what someone should focus on when starting out.
Would you be available for a quick 15–20-minute conversation sometime this week?
It would be great to learn from your experience!”
Subject: Request for a Brief Informational Conversation – [Your Name]
“Hello [Name],
I hope you’re doing well.
I’m currently exploring career opportunities in [Industry/Profession] and came across your professional background.
Your experience in this field is particularly interesting to me, and I’d appreciate the opportunity to learn more about your career journey and industry insights.
I’m not seeking a job opportunity; my intention is simply to gain a better understanding of the profession and the skills required to succeed.
Would you be available for a brief 15–20-minute conversation at your convenience?
Thank you for considering my request.
Best regards,
[Your Name]”
Important: Personalise every message. Mention something specific about the person’s experience rather than sending identical messages to dozens of professionals.

Getting someone to agree to a conversation is only half the job.
You should also respect their time by preparing properly.
Here is a simple preparation checklist.
Before the conversation, spend some time understanding:
LinkedIn is a useful starting point.
You don’t need to memorise their entire career history. Just understand enough to ask relevant questions.
Understand the basics of the profession.
For example, if you want to explore digital marketing, learn about:
This allows you to ask more meaningful questions instead of using the conversation to learn basic definitions.
The professional may ask:
“So, tell me a little about yourself.”
Prepare a 30-second introduction.
For example:
“Hi, I’m [Name]. I’ve completed my graduation in commerce and currently work in customer support. Over time, I’ve developed an interest in marketing because I enjoy understanding customer behaviour and communication. I’m exploring whether digital marketing could be a suitable career direction, so I wanted to understand the industry from someone with practical experience.”
Keep it natural and concise.
Write down the five questions discussed earlier.
You don’t have to ask all five if the conversation naturally covers some of them.
If someone agrees to 20 minutes, don’t extend the conversation without asking.
Be punctual, keep your questions relevant, and thank them for their time.
Professional courtesy matters.
Once the conversation begins, your role is primarily to listen and learn.
Here are a few things to remember.
Don’t dominate the conversation.
You requested their time because you want to understand their experience. Give them enough space to share it.
Ask follow-up questions.
If they mention something interesting, explore it further.
For example:
“You mentioned that communication is extremely important in your role. Could you share an example of how it influences your daily work?”
Don’t immediately ask for a referral or job.
Remember the purpose of the conversation.
Be honest about your career interests.
You don’t need to pretend that you know everything about the industry.
Take notes.
Write down useful suggestions, skills to develop, resources to explore, and mistakes to avoid.
Most importantly, stay curious.
Many people make one mistake after a successful conversation.
They simply say thank you and disappear.
A professional conversation should ideally be followed by a thoughtful follow-up.
Send a message within 24 hours.
Example:
“Hi [Name],
Thank you for taking the time to speak with me today.
I particularly found your insights about [specific topic] helpful. Your suggestion about developing [specific skill] has given me a clearer idea of what I should focus on next.
I genuinely appreciate your time and guidance.
Thank you once again!”
If someone recommends learning a particular tool, explore it.
If they suggest completing a project, work on it.
If they recommend speaking with another professional, consider reaching out politely.
Don’t collect advice without implementing anything.
You don’t need to message the person every week.
However, if you make progress based on their advice, a short update can be appropriate.
For example:
“Hi [Name], I wanted to share a quick update. I followed your suggestion and completed an introductory course in data analytics. Your advice helped me take the first step, so thank you!”
This is how professional relationships develop naturally.
Even a well-intentioned conversation can become uncomfortable if you approach it incorrectly.
Here are some mistakes to avoid.
| Mistake | Better Approach |
|---|---|
| Asking for a job immediately | Focus on learning about the profession. |
| Sending generic LinkedIn messages | Personalise your introduction. |
| Asking questions easily answered through Google | Research basic information beforehand. |
| Asking too many questions | Prioritise 4–5 meaningful questions. |
| Talking more than listening | Give the professional space to share. |
| Asking about salary immediately | First understand the role and industry. |
| Expecting referrals | Treat the conversation as a learning opportunity. |
| Never following up | Send a thoughtful thank-you message. |
One more important point: Not everyone will respond to your request.
Some professionals may be busy, some may not be comfortable speaking with strangers, and others may simply miss your message.
Don’t take it personally.
Approach people respectfully, send one polite follow-up if appropriate, and continue learning.

Although the basic approach remains the same, your questions should depend on your career stage.
If you’re a student exploring future career options, focus on understanding the profession.
Useful questions include:
If you’ve recently completed your education, focus on becoming employable.
Ask:
If you already have professional experience, focus on transferable skills and transition opportunities.
Ask:
The more relevant your questions are to your current situation, the more valuable the conversation becomes.
There is no fixed number.
However, if you’re seriously exploring a career direction, speaking with three to five professionals working in different roles within the same industry can provide a useful starting perspective.
Why different professionals?
Because one person’s experience may not represent the entire industry.
For example, if you’re exploring marketing, speak with:
You will begin noticing similarities and differences in their experiences.
This helps you understand the different career paths available within the same industry.
Remember, the objective isn’t to speak with as many people as possible. It’s to gather enough meaningful information to make an informed decision.

Many people spend months searching for the perfect career.
They watch videos, compare salaries, read job descriptions, enrol in courses, and ask friends for advice.
All of these activities can be useful.
But sometimes, the most valuable information comes from speaking with someone who is already doing the work you are considering.
An informational interview gives you the opportunity to look beyond job titles, understand the realities of a profession, identify the skills you need, and make better career decisions.
So, don’t wait until you are completely confused about your future.
Start with one conversation.
Find someone whose professional journey interests you. Reach out respectfully. Ask thoughtful questions. Listen carefully. And most importantly, act on what you learn.
Remember: You don’t always need someone to give you an opportunity. Sometimes, you simply need someone to help you see the right opportunity.
An informational interview can help you understand a profession from someone else’s experience.
But there is another important question you should answer before making a career decision:
Does that career actually match your interests, aptitude, strengths, and personal preferences?
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